Sunday, April 17, 2011

To be or not to be...offended

Are you the type of person that always looks to get offended? If not, perhaps you know of someone who cannot handle even the slightest critique. I am in no way insinuating that true offenses don't occur but on the other hand, I feel that our culture has become extremely thin skinned. I have to say that although I don't enjoy being criticized over certain areas in my life, I do welcome constructive criticism when given from someone that has my best interests at heart. The reality is, that when truth is spoken in love, we should always be open to receive it in good faith. If we are honest with ourselves, we will recognize that pride tends to keep us from having a teachable spirit, suggesting that we can do everything on our own. Simply put, in many of the things we say and do, having another set of watchful eyes may be all that is needed. By saying this, we should welcome the thoughts and opinions of others as these are the very things that may strengthen our character and add value to our lives. Do yourself a favor, the next time someone gives you an open rebuke, don't be so quick to brush them off as being judgemental for they may have some validity to their claim. Proverbs 1:1-7 "A wise man takes heed to instruction but the fool despises correction".

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